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hl
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 Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 6:23 pm Post subject: No kids |
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| I and my partner have been married for many years, both of us are healthy, but we still don't have child yet. Not that we don't want to have child, but just cant get, any advise? |
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cll
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| Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:24 pm Post subject: |
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| you make yourself an idiot to ask such question here. the answer is straight, it's either your problem or your wife problem. just go to the doctor, what do you aspect from forumers here? good luck anyway. |
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mnl
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:23 pm Post subject: |
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you have been married for years, can it be you haven't have any sex with your partner yet.??? wahahaha.
probably you should make it clear you always have sex with no protection but still no kids. |
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hl
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:27 pm Post subject: |
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People in this forums don't seems to be friendly and helpful at all. Is this how Sabahan treat others?
Anyway, my partner and I have made an appointment with the doctor this weekend. |
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Serac
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| One of you may have a problem like what they said. You might not be able to breed babies. The only reason this may have happened is if someone kicked you in the nuts. Sorry, but it's true. |
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Mardra
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| Serac wrote: | | One of you may have a problem like what they said. You might not be able to breed babies. The only reason this may have happened is if someone kicked you in the nuts. Sorry, but it's true. |
Well that is defiantly not the only reason he might not be fertile. There are a lot of things that can cause that problem. Certainly you need to go to a doctor, probably a specialist in infertility.
If it ends up that you and your partner can't have children there plenty of children out there that need to be adopted. |
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Lucy
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There is no reason to be rude.
They do have a point though, you should ask for medical advise from a forum. I would do a lot of research and see a doctor. |
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ToddtheGodd
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| Having kids is overrated. Lol just kidding. My girlfriend has started to hint about us having kids soon and I'm trying to think of ways to put it off. Maybe I will be really rude and tell her I can't have any. |
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Jagger
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| Well, it's either your wife or you. If it's your wife.. I don't know if there is an answer. If It's you.. You could try invitro, but that does cost a lot. My brother and his wife did that. Have twins now:) |
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William
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| Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:10 am Post subject: |
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Kids are a hassle. If you really cannot make a child, you can always adopt one. Although him/her will not be your own, you can treat him/her like it was one of your own.  |
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jj39
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 9:49 pm Post subject: |
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Off course consult doctor is d 1st option but not many people hv d courage to do so . May b wrong timing contribute d factor. If u try during her COLD season i.e pass her ovalation days, apa u buat pun tak jadi la!  Why not try to find out when d wife exact ovalation dates ( she hs to learn how to use a thermometer to measure her temperature b4 she gets up fr bed for at least a month to know her average peak (fertile) periods - shd b only a few days ( i mean thermometer under d tounge la only takes a few minutes, & that fertile dates are d best time to make baby. sure chun one.  |
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lovepark
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we don even know what are the problem they encounter.. and don even know who and whos problem.. how to help ??.. furthermore.. wat we can give its only via words.. and doctor are proffesional enuff to answer u with the right and accurate answer instead of us here..
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phuah79
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For this kind of problem, yes the better way or approach is to make a appointment to doctor..We may know the reason is happen on the guy or the gal. It either the sperm is no enug for guy. This is the common problem for the man living in earth nowadays. If it happen to gal, I thk the chance to get baby is much more difficult. But I believe that , out technology today can solve ur problem .
In order to prevent this kind of thing, i advise :-guy save ur sperm in the sperm Bank. kekeke |
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lovepark
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| Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 12:25 pm Post subject: |
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Malaysia got sperm bank? where? 
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phuah79
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| Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 10:09 pm Post subject: |
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| lovepark wrote: | | Malaysia got sperm bank? where? |
No yet..But have to get government approve first..kekekek
no need to think .. |
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