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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:18 pm    Post subject: Long Distance Relationship... Reply with quote

Will long distance relationship last long? How u maintain your relationship?
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hmm, i oso have one relationship with one gal in KK.
For me , the most important thing is "Trust" and "Tolerance".
First of all, I am the one who will object this long relationship. But at last I am the one who fall to this . At first , I just play and chatting and looking someone who live in KK .This is due to I have a trips to KK soon. Who know, been chatting with this gal and she gv me a big impression. She is nice and frenly. Having chatting quite some time. We from frenster->SMS->Phone call...till now, avday at least 2 hours call..

I just cant stop call her avday..it oredi become a habit..I really love her now..Sometime, I suspect whether this is call love.. Eventually it tell me "yes" ..

3 months ago, I went to the KK. She treat me well. She let me so touching.. I live in her sister house. Her sister is nice too, she bring me to the KK town and a lot of place.. The third day, when i in KK. She is sick, but she did not tell me , cause she wants to accompany me to the place that we had schedule. I found it... My tear are out ...
She is such a nice girl...


Girl.. My Dear. Gong just want to let you know here. I will Love you Forever.(51331314)
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Communications its the KEY!!!
works onot.. its depands on that couple.. each ppl had their way how to love that person.
cos every couple while they are in love.. they always think their love its very special compare others.
so just continue the way u are. and nothing to be scared about.. time will tell if he/she is belongs to you.

don say its long distance.. even u both everyday see each other.. doesnt meant will get to be forever..
even married also will divorce.. its hard to see forever love nowadays.. but i believe everyone has their mr.right and miss.right

so no matter wat it is... just treasure what u have.. and do ur best... even thou until the end might cant last long.. at least u have a sweet memory...
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lovepark wrote:
Communications its the KEY!!!
works onot.. its depands on that couple.. each ppl had their way how to love that person.
cos every couple while they are in love.. they always think their love its very special compare others.
so just continue the way u are. and nothing to be scared about.. time will tell if he/she is belongs to you.

don say its long distance.. even u both everyday see each other.. doesnt meant will get to be forever..
even married also will divorce.. its hard to see forever love nowadays.. but i believe everyone has their mr.right and miss.right

so no matter wat it is... just treasure what u have.. and do ur best... even thou until the end might cant last long.. at least u have a sweet memory...


Hi Lovepark, I agreed that what u ve mentioned . Nowadays , it very hard to hv a last long love. Even married, it will get divorce too. That right. That is the point i will cont contribute my love to the KK girl. I won stop love her, moreover, my love to her will increase day by day.

I wont give this relationship with her, this is because I been finding one girl that allow me to love her forever. Here I hav to inform avone that appreciate the one u re love now. Dont simply break her relationship just because of simple thing.
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 10:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Long distance relationship?! Missing him/her everyday, talk to him/her, but you can't touch and see him/her. It's a suffer relation! May be it works for first 1 to 2 years, but after 4 or 5 years, the relationship will hard to maintain. You will found that you can't concentrate on work by miss him/her everyday, you telephone bills increase and etc. The percentage of succeed couple is very low. It's really depends to how much you love him/her. Try to ask yourself, how if you found your love to him/her decrease? Will you continue or try to maintain? What is the action you will take? My opinion, you should try more hard to maintain this relationship if you really love him/her. I suggested to have a travel trip to other country. You will found the different. When you two are in a strange place, you and him/her is the only one you trust.

To all lovers, please appreciate the one really loves you. Is not easy to find someone love you with true heart.
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

no_name wrote:
Long distance relationship?! Missing him/her everyday, talk to him/her, but you can't touch and see him/her. It's a suffer relation! May be it works for first 1 to 2 years, but after 4 or 5 years, the relationship will hard to maintain. You will found that you can't concentrate on work by miss him/her everyday, you telephone bills increase and etc. The percentage of succeed couple is very low. It's really depends to how much you love him/her. Try to ask yourself, how if you found your love to him/her decrease? Will you continue or try to maintain? What is the action you will take? My opinion, you should try more hard to maintain this relationship if you really love him/her. I suggested to have a travel trip to other country. You will found the different. When you two are in a strange place, you and him/her is the only one you trust.

To all lovers, please appreciate the one really loves you. Is not easy to find someone love you with true heart.





yes, missing her everyday..and make a call to her avday..but the long relatioship is nt forever , it maybe for 1 to 3 years. If 1 or 2 years also cannot wait , it nt point.. but 4 years above , then must have some problem..it all depend how much ur love to her/him.

Yes, the percentage is quik low , but still stand for a chance..as we mentioned above, even u been marry , maybe also get divorce..in shorten relationship.

As conclusion, we must trust each other , no suspect and try to make some surprise to ur lover..and communication is the key point.
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

if he/she its belongs to urs.. nothing can stop both of u..
true love will never easily to give up... if so easy to give up.. thats not call true love...
true love is priceless... once u missed it... u will never able to find someone to replace it..
but back to reality.... we still have to face the reality... every issue... its not say I LOVE YOU = EVERYTHING... love should not totally blind !! expecially 热恋中的男女

and no matter how much u love that person... should not just put the words beside ur mouth everyday by just saying i love u .. i love u .. i cant live without you.. but do nothing...talk everyone also know how to do so.. 每天说一百句爱你的话.. 还不如做一件爱你的事来的有意义..
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 5:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

每天说一百句爱你的话.. 还不如做一件爱你的事来的有意义..


yes, i agreed with this! Razz
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 5:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

actualy i got this from one of the drama.. cos its so memorable.. and so true... totally agreed.
cos not every man can do something to show u that he loves you... and he do it silently... just don wan to let you know...
love u silently without asking return... which not every guy has the same intentions... most of them until the end.. "ohhh... i treat u so good... give u this and that.. see lar.. see how u treat me now... "
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yes, I agree. Love cannot be Talk only..Need action.
For me I will combine "Talk" +"Plan"= "action"
Communication X Lover = Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

phuah79 wrote:
yes, I agree. Love cannot be Talk only..Need action.
For me I will combine "Talk" +"Plan"= "action"
Communication X Lover = Happy

Is it the love formula btw u n your lover? Razz
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lovepark wrote:
actualy i got this from one of the drama.. cos its so memorable.. and so true... totally agreed.
cos not every man can do something to show u that he loves you... and he do it silently... just don wan to let you know...
love u silently without asking return... which not every guy has the same intentions... most of them until the end.. "ohhh... i treat u so good... give u this and that.. see lar.. see how u treat me now... "


talk is important too. but of coz, not simply talk n do nothing. what i mean is sweet words... some people is just like "wood", dont know how to talk sweet words to their gf/bf. actually, sweet words can make ur relationship better, rather than do it silent n say nothing. eg, "i miss u". one phrase of "i miss u" will make u feel warm n u will forget ur tired after work whole day. just like my bf treat me, while i m working, his one sms "i miss u" will make my day happy n seems full of energy.
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PostPosted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 6:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fuisun wrote:
lovepark wrote:
actualy i got this from one of the drama.. cos its so memorable.. and so true... totally agreed.
cos not every man can do something to show u that he loves you... and he do it silently... just don wan to let you know...
love u silently without asking return... which not every guy has the same intentions... most of them until the end.. "ohhh... i treat u so good... give u this and that.. see lar.. see how u treat me now... "


talk is important too. but of coz, not simply talk n do nothing. what i mean is sweet words... some people is just like "wood", dont know how to talk sweet words to their gf/bf. actually, sweet words can make ur relationship better, rather than do it silent n say nothing. eg, "i miss u". one phrase of "i miss u" will make u feel warm n u will forget ur tired after work whole day. just like my bf treat me, while i m working, his one sms "i miss u" will make my day happy n seems full of energy.



i agreed with u , yes, one word "i miss u" i love u" will give energy to urs lover. sometime , when my ang ang" sms me with those word....i tell u , my tears almost come out...kekek. And one thing that I want to Thanks my bb is "BB, Thanks you so much for the thing u gv to me, I really appreciated it . And sometime , when i back lately n make a call to her, she will pick up my call ..although she tired, sometime, i feel sorry for her, but i just cant sleep withour listen her voice.kekekek ...She really my women ..BB, I love you..
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 11:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

phuah79 wrote:
i agreed with u , yes, one word "i miss u" i love u" will give energy to urs lover. sometime , when my ang ang" sms me with those word....i tell u , my tears almost come out...kekek. And one thing that I want to Thanks my bb is "BB, Thanks you so much for the thing u gv to me, I really appreciated it . And sometime , when i back lately n make a call to her, she will pick up my call ..although she tired, sometime, i feel sorry for her, but i just cant sleep withour listen her voice.kekekek ...She really my women ..BB, I love you..

sometimes, i also dont understand y... when my bf no call me, i will worry n feel sad. then, my tears will slowly come out. Crying or Very sad so, i really hope he can call me no matter how late. this called love... love is hard to understand... Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 11:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

awhhh.. u guys are extremely LOVED! i can easily feel the Love in this topic.. in my opinion, long distance relationship is a very tough journey for a couple, im glad u guys can manage to handle the relationship smoothly with ur loved one. for me, i cant handle long distance love, need too much time, trust, controling, reporting the journal, and everything.. but seems that some people really do enjoyed it and also a test for a couple. well, all i know is.. give out the more u can, and expect it less.. hope anyone understand it.. hehe
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